{"id":1495,"date":"2010-06-05T17:49:47","date_gmt":"2010-06-06T00:49:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cristobaloo.moon-watcher.com\/?p=1495"},"modified":"2010-06-05T17:49:47","modified_gmt":"2010-06-06T00:49:47","slug":"trickery-at-home","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cristobaloo.moon-watcher.com\/?p=1495","title":{"rendered":"Trickery at home."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Catherine leads off with &#8220;Want to goto an open house&#8230;&#8221; and I start to go into a daze. \u00a0But I&#8217;m used to this song and dance and I start to try and think up new reasons why this next house is great, but not &#8220;the one&#8221;. \u00a0Yeah, I can do that before I see the house.<\/p>\n<p>But while I&#8217;m fantasizing about rejection, she continues &#8220;&#8230;for a guitar class for Sal?&#8221; and she successfully reset my expectations and we were excited to goto the place.<\/p>\n<p>Then when we get there, it dawns on me why. \u00a0It&#8217;s the Suzuki method of teaching music. \u00a0Yeah, I didn&#8217;t know what that was either. \u00a0And it might not be the Suzuki method &#8211; that could be me generalizing a Japanese last name. \u00a0But it&#8217;s super successful.<\/p>\n<p>Of course it is &#8211; because the parent is a significant teacher in the process &#8211; it&#8217;s one of their upfront commitments that you must make when you enroll your child into the class. \u00a0But what if the parent doesn&#8217;t know how to play the guitar? \u00a0That&#8217;s okay &#8211; because there is an 11 week course designed for parents to become home teachers.<\/p>\n<p>And as all this sinks in during the presentation and I ask Catherine if she&#8217;s planning on going to class and she gives me her &#8220;I&#8217;m cute and I don&#8217;t think I need to do what you&#8217;re asking me&#8221; look I realized that she chose her &#8220;open house&#8221; wording very wisely. \u00a0Misdirection indeed.<\/p>\n<p>So maybe Sal&#8217;s too little for a guitar. \u00a0Nope, they have guitars from &#8220;Argentinia&#8221; that are not like the &#8220;toy guitar like&#8221; things that they sell in music stores. \u00a0Used ones will run 250-600 bucks. \u00a0The older kids that were playing in the recital were sporting $5-7k guitars.<\/p>\n<p>Okay &#8211; so the only way out is to get Sal afraid to commit to the year long classes, so that I don&#8217;t have to commit to the year long classes. \u00a0Except the guy is too young to know what committing to a year of classes is&#8230;and I don&#8217;t really want to scare him out of it anyway.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s to a year+ of &#8220;twinkle, twinkle&#8221; &#8211; because, they emphasize really mastering a song before moving on, so that the next song is easier. \u00a0(I mean, I buy into all their tactics and think they are sound. \u00a0But I also buy into the notion that we pay people to teach and support and love my child, so that I can spend time on the internet&#8230;)<\/p>\n<p>At least, this will give me some rationale for buying those guitar tuning and teaching apps on the iPad.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Catherine leads off with &#8220;Want to goto an open house&#8230;&#8221; and I start to go into a daze. \u00a0But I&#8217;m used to this song and dance and I start to try and think up new reasons why this next house is great, but not &#8220;the one&#8221;. \u00a0Yeah, I can do that before I see the <a href='https:\/\/cristobaloo.moon-watcher.com\/?p=1495' class='excerpt-more'>[&#8230;]<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[6,10],"class_list":["post-1495","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-fatherhood","tag-parenting","category-1-id","post-seq-1","post-parity-odd","meta-position-corners","fix"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cristobaloo.moon-watcher.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1495","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cristobaloo.moon-watcher.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cristobaloo.moon-watcher.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cristobaloo.moon-watcher.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cristobaloo.moon-watcher.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1495"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/cristobaloo.moon-watcher.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1495\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1496,"href":"https:\/\/cristobaloo.moon-watcher.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1495\/revisions\/1496"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cristobaloo.moon-watcher.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1495"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cristobaloo.moon-watcher.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1495"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cristobaloo.moon-watcher.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1495"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}